the definition of boyfriend

boy-friend
–noun
1.
a frequent or favorite male companion; beau.
2.
a male friend.
3.
a male lover.

ah yes. the boyfriend. why I feel the urge to talk about this. Well by the end of this spillage we will all have a better understanding as to why.

the boyfriend.

so many things to different people or all the same thing just misconscrewed.

do we go for someone is attractive and only attractive, someone who fits the mold, or his intelligence, he enjoys the same things we do.

men are wired differently we all know that.

left side, right side brain theory

how men react differently to similar situations then a woman would.

this understanding.. could potientally help to identify our, "my" relationship issues with men.

doubt it

but lets see.

Men tend to process better in the left hemisphere of the brain while women tend to process equally well between the two hemispheres. This difference explains why men are generally stronger with left-brain activities and approach problem-solving from a task-oriented perspective while women typically solve problems more creatively and are more aware of feelings while communicating.

there is so much more to figuring men out. A lot that many scientist don't understand.

like the player...

the sweet heart...

the nerd...

the jock...

the artist...

women tend to want to find a more familiar path of relationship between men and women.

I mean, boyfriend jeans, boyfriend blazers

just fit to our size

think about it

growing up.

i had very few female friends

they attacked me

attacked my independence

my personality

my qualities and brought me down to their level

oooooooooo

how the friend me on myspace

i add them

bc.

im grown

but i made friends mostly with boys, then dudes, then men.

& i just have tighter more reliable relationships in men

i know the reason the player plays

and i know how to play just a well or better

i know how the sweet heart reacts

because i can relate

how the nerd socializes

because my baby brother wasn't so adhered to popularity

(i love him so much)

i know how sports can consume jocks

i was a jock

i can see the artist perspective

i am a woman, and have a free spirit

thing is: my reason for this is i recently left my ex

moved out

he threw my clothes over the balcony

and i called it quits

thing is

he was a player

played me

plenty

and i stayed

because

i am a sweet heart a nerd

i can be a player

but with him I wasn't

people's personalities tend to change once they find what they are looking for

i know it's called something

but it's like adapting to the surroundings, to your habitat doing what it is to survive

he gets his act together once i leave him

attends church, wants to take me out, calls me to tell me where he is going

invites me out with him ( a first of our four years together )

so much shiiiit that i wasn't used to

that i wanted and never got and now i can't handle

i went out with him last night

actually i've gone out with on several occasions since i left him

not sure why

I talk to God about it

& well he's not on his side

but while out i just got this vibe this over-bearing need to control me

some other man winked at me in the club instead of brush it off he gets the look of the devil and takes his hand and swipes it across his thoart as to say cut it off.

i'm not sure if i was taken back by that

but i found it un-needed i can handle my own

he was such a better boyfriend before

i cried so much but he wasn't trying to win some game anymore

my life is a maze

so let's not get you anymore lost

the topic of what a boyfriend is

does a boyfriend become a husband or just always stay a boyfriend

does a boyfriend just remain a boy - friend

over the next couple of days I am going to concentrate on what my definition of boyfriend is

and imma ask my friends

let's see what the responses are.

-dp

how could you be so heartless